Wednesday 14 September 2016

7 things that people often judge you upon....

  

Introduction:

No matter how good you look, or how courteous you come across, people will judge you; they are going to judge you anyway!! 
Right from the moment, you see them or they see you, the ‘Game of Judgment’ begins… 
We humans have such urgency to judge a person and maybe that is why we look for certain signs in the other person. We may appear to be talking or greeting each other, but back in our minds we are busy noticing, evaluating them. 
A group of researchers studied a sample of 200 people and their basis of judgments; they concluded that it is in human nature to judge one another and form opinions. They also construed that people judge your personality on the basis of 7 small things, take a look…

Handwriting-
Every person has their own unique way of writing- the size of their letters, the font, etc. Did you know that your handwriting gives out clear signals about your personality? A study conducted by the National Pen Company, revealed that people who tend to write smaller letters possessed shy, and studious nature, whereas people with bigger letters and bolder fonts turned out to be more outgoing.
Those who take things seriously put more pressure on the pen when they write, while light-handed writers typically tend to be empathetic and are more sensitive.

Color of clothes
You may chose a color that suits you and enhances your charm, but the same color lets out secrets of your personality. People are inclined to pick a color that speaks to them, like some people may often be seen donning black, or red or yellow, for instance. The ones who chose black are quite sensitive and are attentive towards detail, while those who love red enjoy adventure and are proactive in life. Those prefer green are loyal and the ones to whom white appeal the most are quite logical and organized in their life. 

Bodily reactions
The habit of nail biting is often seen as a sign of nervousness, but it also speaks a lot about your personality. Similarly, the way your body reacts to certain situations in life, explains a lot, for example pulling hair strand, biting nail skin or nail are signs of frustration, dullness and tense personality. 

Footwear
There is a very famous saying, "Always judge a man by his shoes," as it reveals a lot about a person's true nature, hygiene and attention to details. The style of footwear, the way its maintained speaks a lot about one's personality, like whether they are spendthrift, or gentle, political affiliation and lifestyle.

Eye-contact
Here I am not referring to contact lens, but the way a person holds eye contact. Eyes are believed to be a mirror to one's soul. A person can be easily judged based on how they hold their eye contact, to say if they are being dishonest, deceitful, loyal, or conniving. People who hold a steady gaze, are strong-minded and confident, whereas a lack of steadiness can shout weak will and weak self-control.

Punctuality 
Are you always to preset appointments? No matter, how well you explain your ordeal, but it does leave a negative impression about your overall personality. Getting late due to traffic is something different, but having a habit of leaving your place late, even if it is on the day of the most important meeting or function, is something different. Coming early for an important day, interview or appointment is a sign that the person is self-motivated and reliable. 

Handshake
It has been discovered that people with a strong handshake exude confidence and reflect a strong and confident character. Such people are also more likely to be extroverted, being expressive of their emotions, and less likely to be placid. People with weak handshakes, on the other hand, lack confidence and always tend to want the easy way out of a challenge. Offering a handshake alone could be the different between appearing standoffish or sincerely friendly.

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